I help you rewrite the story inside your head
Write the Story so You Thrive
Hi, I'm Nicolò
Key credentials:
Licensed Psychologist
PhD in Cognitive Neuroscience
Certified coach with the International Coaching Federation (PCC level)
I’ve coached 1000+ adults through major life transitions. I'm the founder and lead coach for The Story of Us, a program for parents who want to consciously craft a family life filled with joy, adventure and awe.
Prior to being a coach, I was an active researcher with 20+ published papers on the neuroscience of learning and brain-body interactions (link to my publications list).
I’m a husband and a father of two, to this day the most joyful, humbling and epic story of my life.
When life throws you into transition - becoming a parent, changing careers, facing loss - the stories we tell ourselves determine whether we thrive or merely survive. I’m a narrative coach who helps people author the next chapter of their lives with intention, clarity, and courage.
My specialty is turning chaos into coherence. I work with people navigating major life transitions, helping them craft stories that serve their growth rather than limit it.
Whether you’re stepping into parenthood, taking on new roles, or rebuilding after upheaval, I create spaces where you can pause, reflect, and consciously write what comes next.
Through powerful questions, life-authoring exercises and practical emotion regulation skills, I help clients move from feeling like lost characters in someone else’s script to becoming the conscious authors of lives they’re proud to live.
From survival mode to present & joyful living
That's us. We're celebrating our first child's 4 months. My papa is grinning on the right, as excited to shoot the photo from a drone as he's proud of the legacy he helped creating.
I was transitioning from a 10+ year career as a cognitive scientist (an inspiration that came from my father) to a new chapter as an executive coach (integrating influences from my mother, with the stripy shirt).
But no matter how much I knew about the brain and performance, I was a new dad: in love, tired and confused as anyone else.
"The Story of Us" is everything I wish I had as I was going through that wild, precious chapter of my life.
